Wednesday, August 22, 2007

wiki wednesday

It's time for Wiki Wednesday.

1. Go to wikipedia.
2. Click on "random article" on the left-hand sidebar box.
3. Post it!

Today's random offering is a stub. So if you know anything about this anti-poverty project, this is your chance to make a mark on "wiki scholarship."

Integrated Rural Development Programme is a program initiative by Government of India to promote rural enterprise.

back from new jersey—finally

Last Friday, John and I took the boys to visit Gma Dorothy and Gpa David in Princeton, NJ. We flew in and out of Philadelphia, which we seldom do, but flight times were more favorable than at Newark. For the record, Northwest flights leave from PHL’s worst terminal. The newsstand is criminal and options for food are paltry at best. This really only matters if you have a long layover or are delayed, as we were—repeatedly—on our attempted return to St. Paul.

I refuse to dwell on the particular details from this trip because, sadly, these sorts of delays have become routine when flying. I’m feeling especially angry about building extra vacation time into any trip to accommodate the airline’s worst practices. For the moment, I’m off travel and never want to fly anywhere again . . . or until the next time I have to fly somewhere.

We still managed to have a lovely time with John’s mother and her husband. We ate spectacularly well. On Saturday night we learned how to grill beer-can chicken. I know, we’re the last on the block to try cooking chicken this way, but I have to say this was the best chicken I’ve eaten. Steaming the bird’s cavity with liquid really does make the meat moister. The skin was perfectly seasoned with a cayenne-brown sugar rub, which totally and flavorfully permeated the chicken. Farmstand corn on the cob and New Jersey tomato slices dressed with balsamic vinegar, olive oil, and feta accompanied the chicken. The raspberries the boys had picked that morning were transformed into a silky-tart homemade ice cream, which is the best ice cream we’ve had this summer.

On Sunday, we took in the King Tut exhibit at Philadelphia’s Franklin Institute. The show had some amazing treasures, which were well presented with each gallery serving as a tomb chamber. Various hallways connecting the galleries were constructed to resemble the passageways between tomb chambers—a nifty device to make a transition from the treasures of King Tut and those of earlier rulers.. Simon was a little creeped out by the chance that he might encounter a mummy (there were none), but Winston reveled in every detail. He especially was blown away by Tutankhamen's age when he became king—9, just a little older than Simon.

In all, our visit was too short, considering all the travel time involved. Nonetheless, it’s always fun to make this trip when the weather is warm and we’re the only guests.

Thursday, August 16, 2007

Viva le King




This week marks the 30th anniversary of Elvis’s death. Do you remember where you were when Elvis died?

My family was on a major summer vacation, touring the western US in a (borrowed) RV. We were sightseeing in Salt Lake City when news of Elvis’ death broke. “Did you hear, the King is dead?” was a common refrain passed between tourists visiting Temple Square that day. I remember my father trying to explain what a huge deal this was, especially to people who had come of age in the 50s.

While I’ve never been a huge Elvis fan, I can easily acknowledge his place in the history of rock. And, I’m endlessly fascinated by Elvis impersonators, especially those in this feature.

Is anyone surprised to learn that Elvis is the second-highest grossing dead star? Kurt Cobain is #1. Cuing up my favorite Elvis number, “A Little Less Conversation.” Here’s the original version in a video clip from Live a Little, Love a Little..

Wednesday, August 15, 2007

Son number one exposes truth

Not long after Simon collected fifty cents from the Tooth Fairy this morning, he asked me if She was real. He had a theory about how She must not be real because of "the excuse Mom and Dad use when She's late." He lost his tooth on Saturday night, but the TF hadn't visited yet because, yes, John and I kept forgetting, and, conveniently, She'd been delayed by (very real, intense) thunderstorms.

But, John and I have never discussed how to handle The Confrontation so I asked Simon to tell his theory to his father after dinner this evening. And, that's when It happened. In one fell swoop, the ugly truth about the Tooth Fairy (mom and dad), Santa (mom and dad), and the Easter Bunny (Grandma Margaret) was revealed. I was certain he'd find out on the playground, from that thug Tony, but no, Simon's parents exposed themselves as (petty) frauds.

Bless John, though, for telling Simon that we perpetuate the myth about The Trinity because it's fun and for asking Simon to let Winston keep believing as long as Winston wants. Which will probably be until he leaves home for college.

Also, I've bribed Simon with extra special presents if he keeps his mouth shut.

Wiki Wednesday

Hey, it's Wiki Wednesday again. I've got my fingers crossed for an interesting entry! Here are the rules:

1. Go to wikipedia.
2. Click on "random article" on the left-hand sidebar box.
3. Post it!

Oh, dear god. I am stunned by the complete randomness of this entry. Read more about Clayton, WI—the one in Polk County—here.
There are two other towns named Clayton in Wisconsin.

Clayton is a town in Polk County, Wisconsin, United States. The population was 912 at the 2000 census. The Village of Clayton is located within the town.

This probably wouldn't surprise anyone:
The racial makeup of the town was 99.23% White, 0.33% Native American, 0.11% Asian, and 0.33% from two or more races. 0.66% of the population were Hispanic or Latino of any race.

Tuesday, August 14, 2007

Listening

My workload today called for something that would inspire me to keep at my project as well as provide an occasional worthy distraction. Scrolling through my iTunes file at work—all the way to the bottom (at the moment, I have music arrange alpha by artist)—I landed on The White Stripes' latest album, Icky Thump.

The somewhat bizarre album title should warn the listener that the musical arrangements and the lyrics might be unnerving—but only in the best sort of way. I have loved The White Stripes' hook-laden tunes from their very first album. While the duo has a very distinctive sound, this is the first album where they really stretch and flex their abilities. Icky Thump is , I guess you could say, an experimental album. As with any such changes to a band's musical style, some tracks wail while some fall far short.

Here are some of the tracks getting repeat play:

~Icky Thump—guitar stylings pay homage to 70s rock icons, such as Led Zepplin while the lyrics display a strange but brilliant quality

~300 M.P.H. Torrential Outpour Blues—soulful surf guitar and laid back Southern California sounds

~Prickly Thorn, But Sweetly Worn—pleasingly folksy with a clear Scottish influence that seques into the utterly bizarro, very creepy St. Andrew , which defies description (Catholic anguish perhaps?)

Monday, August 13, 2007

Weekend report: August 11 and 12

Sadly, the weekend was a little stressful. Both boys were pretty demanding of our attention, and when they weren't physically pulling on us, they bickered. Some weekends are like that—even in Australia.

The Twin Cities experienced some severe thunderstorms on early Saturday morning—around 4 a.m. For the first time, I had a slight panic about tree limbs landing on the skylights about our bed, then remembered we had the tree in question removed in July. This storm's lightning was flickery and bizarre and was destined to keep me up. John and I didn't even have time to place wagers on how long it would be before the boys were in our bed when the skylight over his side of the bed started leaking. In a steady stream. Simon did wake up and found us in the den where I was reading HP7 to John. We all craved sleep so John and I each curled up with one of the boys. Winston managed, blessedly, to sleep through the storm. And, we were very lucky to have escaped any damage and to have retained our electricity.

Saturday: Simon went to a birthday party. Winston received a much needed haircut. The boys had a new sitter from the end of the block while John and I met our friend Liz M-P for a fantastic dinner at Saffron. We all shared a mezze platter with a feta cheese spread, potato salad with preserved lemon, lamb meatballs in harissa, and chickpeas. My meal started with a blue crab and avocado-citrus salad; the salmon-clam tagine (silky poached fish on a bed of sliced potatoes rather than couscous was unusual and tasty) was my main. For dessert we shared a tasty, spicy dried-fruit tart that was presented in a filo purse and a chocolate mousse cake, which didn't really meet expectations for a chocolate dessert.

Sunday: Simon served as John's tour guide when we saw the Pompeii exhibit (which really wasn't as good the second time around) at the Science Museum. Winston enjoyed looking at the little burial artifacts and satisfied his morbid curiosity in the room with the casts of people caught by Mt. Vesuvius' fiery blast. He's going to love the King Tut exhibit in Philadelphia, which we're going to see at the end of this week. On our way home, we had cocktails at our friends' Colin and Helena's. They served some really good food—cantaloupe wrapped with prosciutto; figs with blue cheese, walnuts, and balsamic vinegar; and a store-bought salsa that they doctored with fresh tomato chunks. Friends Sarah and Dave were also there. I made "Thomas Jefferson" macaroni and cheese—this is what the kids call the not-from-a-box version—for the boys' dinner. John and I were pretty sated from the food we'd eaten at C & H's but managed to help the boys with their mac and cheese...and another bottle of wine. Nothing like a Sunday night lush.

Friday, August 10, 2007

We got a reservation!

After a day and a half of simultaneously speed-dialing on a cell phone and on my work land line, I finally got through the endless string of busy signals to reach a live body at The French Laundry. Getting that far is just the half of it. Then, you have to be willing to face outright rejection because all the tables are booked for the evening(s) on which you'd like to have dinner, oh, two months from now. Or, you'll be offered a table at lunch: "We have a table at eleven and at eleven-thirty." As if you'd settle for lunch to celebrate your milestone birthday.

Persistance with the humorless reservationist—Iris—yielded at 5:30 p.m. reservation on October 5, 2007.

A debt of gratitude to you Iris!

Wednesday, August 08, 2007

Lucky 13

This past weekend, John and I celebrated our 13th wedding anniversary—that would be the lace wedding anniversary if you follow the traditional gift table, or leather or fur if you're on the modern track. Long ago, we decided to relieve the pressure of another gift-giving occasion by opting not to buy each other presents for our anniversary. Instead, we treat ourselves to a lovely meal in a restaurant, where we gaze happily, gratefully into each others' eyes. Just as we did on our honeymoon, which we took in Bariloche, Argentina.

This year, we had our anniversary dinner at Muffuletta’s, in the charming St. Anthony Park neighborhood of St. Paul. Muffuletta’s menu highlights dishes with local and seasonal ingredients, prepared in generally innovative ways. My biggest quibble with the place is that the portions were enormous. The salmon rillettes I ordered as a starter could have satisfied four diners. But, the smoked salmon and wine-poached fresh salmon blended with aioli and served on toasted baguette slices was divine, and the gnocchi with heirloom tomatoes and a pistachio-almond pesto that followed knocked my socks off. We look forward to returning in the fall to see what JD Fratzke has up his sleeve for my favorite eating season.

Uncle Nik, who is staying with us for a week, was watching the boys so we took advantage of his bargain rate and lack of curfew to take in a movie. We saw Harry Potter and the Order of the Phoenix at the Highland Theater, which was approximately three hours long. It’s a trip to see the actors growing up, seemingly outgrowing their characters. I wonder how they’ll hold up until book number seven is turned into a move. As Order of the Phoenix represented the first truly bloated book, lots of scenes (such as Hagrid’s unnecessarily long search for the giants) from the book were edited out for the movie, which I truly appreciated.

It was a lovely, long evening, and a perfect anniversary celebration.

Thursday, August 02, 2007

iota

I love what this architecture firm is doing. And, they have some great marketing—check out their website.Our home doesn't need the sort of residential overhaul in which this firm specializes, but if we did, I'd put them on the list.

Wednesday, August 01, 2007

Wiki Wednesday

Karen at Verbatim, one of my favorite daily reads, plays Wiki Wednesday, which has the following rules:

1. Go to wikipedia.
2. Click on "random article" on the left-hand sidebar box.
3. Post it!

I think this is just the thing to spice up my blog, so I'm going to participate.

Hugh Grant could play this guy in the movie version. Not only does Grant resemble this politician, but he often takes the role of cad.

Jim Rogers is a Democratic city councilmember of the city of Richmond, California. He was well known throughout the San Francisco Bay Area as a lawyer, until he was elected to [1] and ceased practicing law as of September 2006.

Rogers' legal career was marred by controversy, as he was repeatedly accused of fraudulent, negligent, and unethical practices by former clients[citation needed]. A 2003 feature story in the East Bay Express [2] outlined the various allegations and lawsuits against him in detail.

As you can see, this Wikipedia article is wanting for credibility, but it also illustrates how far-reaching the "people's encyclopedia" can be.

Saturday, July 28, 2007

thus, we end the hiatus

The summer has been very busy at chez Shepard—as it has been for almost everyone. Believe me, my busy is no more important than your busy. We have had people coming and going, and I have had some technical difficulties with my computer, which has either been with Apple Care or unusable. All of these things have made it difficult to sit down for any amount of time to write, and I have sincerely missed blogging.

Some of the highlights of the past two months include the following:

Atlanta photo shoot
In late June, I accompanied our photographer to Georgia for a photo shoot of some houses built from our designs in the greater Atlanta area. For the most part, the homes were in the suburbs so I don't feel like I really got a sense of Atlanta. I'm not even sure I spied the downtown area of taller buildings, but since we are about all things residential, we stuck to the areas where people live. And, we did drive all the way up to the Appalachian foothills, which were beautiful. I'd like to write more about the trip later.

Simon
My oldest, and very independent, son took a two-week vacation with my parents in early July. They started in Watertown, SD, then drove to Winner, SD, where my father has a place and a lot of farm land. Simon got to help drive a tractor in Grandpa Ron's wheat fields. But, the pretext for Simon's extended stay was a trip to Big Sky, MT, where my mother was attending a conference. The conference had a kid's program ideal for 7 and up. So, Grandpa chaperoned the pasha as he made a jaunt to Yellowstone and Mammoth Spring, took a hike with a naturalist, and tried his hand at tying flies and fly-fishing.

Simon has plans to spend the rest of the summer writing a book and has already bound some watercolor paper inside cardboard covers.

Winston
My youngest son is having adventures of the more local variety. While I was in Atlanta, Winston lost his first tooth. I'm secretly please not to have been there, but he was excited enough to call me and share the news. To keep Winston amused and distracted while Simon was away, we took him to REI where he proceeded to climb the Pinnacle, a 55-foot climbing wall. When asked about his experience, he replied, "From the top, you looked like ants." Which is funny, little dude, because from the bottom you looked like an ant. More on this later, too.

John
My handsome husband is just a few hours from finishing his third RAGBRAI, and I am so proud of him. He is riding with his friend Steve. Neither of them are in good shape physically. Both have admitted that they would have had more fun if every day hadn't been a struggle with sore muscles and numbness in the extremities. These are just a few of the reasons why I opted out of the ride this year. A few weeks ago, I did an organized 35-mile bike ride and decided that was about all I could manage. RAGBRAI, cruel mistress, demands 70 miles a day (on average) for seven days. Plus, camping, which is fun but means sleeping on the ground. I miss John and can't wait for him to return.

Houseguests
John's brother Will and his little family--wife Helena, son Bjorn (5), and daughter Sophia (2)--are visiting from Sweden for a month and graciously gave us a week of their time. We had many wonderful meals together. I spent a day with Winston and our guests at the Minnesota Zoo. And, on Saturday morning we visited the St. Paul Farmers Market.

By this time tomorrow, my little family will be intact for the first time in over a month, and I can't wait to have some more summer with them.

Wednesday, July 04, 2007

They Rocked

That is, The Police--they rocked. Hard. Sure, each band member is over 50 and needs to conserve energy to get through a set (about 1.5 hours) and three encores, but I was not disappointed. The performance wasn't perfect--there were plenty of miscues and missed words, and it often seemed as if the band was holding back (again, conserving energy or reluctance to have too much fun). That said, watching Sting and Andy jam and Stewart wail on drums was worth every penny spent on tickets ($180 + processing fees), parking ($15), beer ($12 for two), and kidsitter ($40).

Most songs had been rearranged, which made it challenging to figure out which song the band was playing next. The reworked songs demonstrated how The Police were able to keep their music relevant after 24 years of not making music together, as well as helped them avoid the embarrassment of the "aging rock star trying to relive former glory" syndrome.

Here's the playlist:

1. Message in a Bottle
2. Synchronicity II
3. Walking on the Moon
4. Voices in My Head/When the World Is Running Down… (unexpected and well done)
5. Don’t Stand So Close to Me (absolutely timeless--The Police could record this arrangement and it would be better than most single being released today)
6. Driven to Tears (bass-driven)
7. Truth Hits Everybody
8. Bed’s Too Big without You (amped up the reggae for this number)
9. Every Little Thing She Does Is Magic
10. Wrapped around Your Finger
11. De Do Do Do, De Da Da Da
12. Invisible Sun (brilliant, even with the children-of-war slide show)
13. Walking in Your Footsteps (better than recorded)
14. Can’t Stand Losing You

First encore: Roxanne (again, better than recorded)
Then: King of Pain, So Lonely (my favorite of the songs played), Every Breath You Take (hard to sit through, even live)
One last song: Next to You (next favorite)

John and I had so much fun, and it was thrilling to be part of a sold-out show.

Tuesday, July 03, 2007

The Police


During the summer of 1983, when I wasn’t sunning at the pool or hacking a little white ball around the golf course, I listened to music every chance I had. The British music scene was especially appealing to me. On the soft side, I grooved to the New Romantic sounds of Duran Duran, Bow Wow Wow, Depeche Mode, Culture Club, Ultravox, ABC, Talk Talk, and The Human League to name just a few. On the edgier end of the musical spectrum, anything punk or glam was good. And somewhere in between, there was my all-time favorite band—The Police.

By the time my friends and I had driver’s licenses and permission to travel alone so that we could drive four hours to the Twin Cities for concerts, The Police had broken up. So my friends—Ann D. and Jenny E.—and I watched the concert videos, Around the World and Synchronicity, so often that it felt like we had seen the power trio play live.

Since the mid-eighties, I have had the good fortune to see Sting in concert (twice). And, I sat close enough to the stage that I could be hit by a bead of Stewart Copeland's sweat when he played the Fine Line with Animal Logic.

I even married a man who saw The Police when they played Dallas on the Synchronicity tour in 1984—and he never loved them half as much as I did.

But tonight—even though I despise the idea of watching old men strut around on a stage, trotting out their faded glory—I am going to see Sting, Stewart, and Andy play their reunion tour at the Xcel Center in St. Paul.

It is The Police after all.

Monday, June 04, 2007

Weekend Report

Fifty architectural historians toured our home this past Saturday. And, the two very short weeks leading up to the day were fraught with an urgency to conquer clutter, which we never quite managed. However, John and I were able to tackle just enough mess to be incredibly house proud.

My parents visited last weekend and did massive amounts of yard work—pulling weeds, tidying the patio landscaping, raking leaves, and cleaning the eaves troughs. And, I concentrated on hiding the piles we're not quite ready to toss (largely bills, recipes , souvenirs). We hung the Caroline Yang Col du Tourmalet photo in the studio. (it's massive and awesome and looks so great hanging on the wall). I also completely rearranged Simon's bedroom and "filed" some of his toys.

All this to say that we were ready for the masses. Strangers flooded into our home on Saturday
afternoon, asking lots of thoughtful questions about elements of the home that might have been part of the original plan. John had unrolled the blueprints of the original home and the addition so folks could take a look for themselves. We received so many kind complements, the sort that make you feel genuinely good.

We're absolutely on the right track.


After the tour, while the boys were occupied with friends Malcolm and Preston, I put my feet up with a book (Robert Wilson's A Small Death in Lisbon, if you must know), but I had a hard time choosing a room in which to relax. The problem—and it's not such a horrible problem to have—was that each room was immaculate and inviting. For the first time in a long time, I didn't feel as if I was fleeing an oppressive mess, taunting me as I neglected it.

We were also rewarded with a dinner at our friends Colin and Helena's beautiful new house (new to them, not new construction), which was wonderful to tour. It's a 1600-square-foot Victorian with a 1600-square-foot historical addition. Basically, half of the house has been lovingly maintained, while the other half is unfinished. Even though, they have a lot of work ahead of them, C & H have an amazing space. It's fun watching them make a home.

Our mutual friends Sarah and Dave were there, too. Having declared this the Summer of Cocktails when we served French 75s a few weeks ago, Dave made champagne cocktails with bourbon and peach slices. He called it an American, but I can't find a reference to it anywhere on the internet. Could be something from his steakhouse waiter days, but I'm curious about origins of everything, so I'll ask.

I made a heaping bowl of guac, not much of which was eaten. We were served grilled flank steak and a chimichurri (cilantro, parsley, orange, lemon, lime, and olive oil—which was oily more than anything else), roasted new potatoes, and tossed greens with red grapes and blue cheese (they do great salads, which I appreciate). We ended the evening drinking Knob Creek.

Sunday highlights include our first trip of the season to the Saint Paul Farmers Market. We bought lettuce and snap peas, as well as herb plants (two kinds of basil, oregano, thyme) and, at Simon's request, pepper plants (jalapeno and anaheim). It felt good to be back at the farmers market after a long winter. It is important to us to know where our food comes from, to eat as close to home as possible, to support our local economy. And, since we aren't farmers and we don't garden, the farmers market is a natural. Besides buying plants and vegetables, we ate Golden's awesome fried-egg bagel sandwiches and we re-acquainted ourselves with our favorite vendors—the guy who sells Hmong handicrafts, the [Big Woods] bison man, the honey man [Otis Family Farm].

If all this wasn't excitement enough, we took a family bike ride —a test run for bicycle commuting from our home to the kids' school. Winston is riding on the tagalong, throwing both arms in the arm, yelling "Tour de France." Simon is riding his own bike—I think he could cover every inch of the city on bike and ask if he could ride some more.

And, Winston would like me to let everyone know he has a loose tooth. He's so excited. He knows it's a milestone. But, he's also a little freaked out and would like it removed. Now. So, he spent Sunday announcing, "Can you take it out? If I could just get this tooth out."

Wednesday, April 25, 2007

Simon made his own lunch today


My seven-year-old (pictured above) made his own lunch today (not pictured above). I cannot get over this fact. Which fact? The one in which he can—beyond brushing his teeth, getting himself dressed, and tying his shoes—be a bit independent. He probably doesn't need me any more...

And, the lunch seemed to be comparable to those I make for him—a little bit healthy, a little bit fun. His menu: salami and cheese sandwich, Cheetos, apple juice, and a banana. Simon informed me that if you cut a banana in half, the cut end gets gross and messes up the inside of his lunch box. So, for that matter, he would be eating a whole banana. Still didn't stop him from putting the whole banana in a plastic bag. Some day he'll realize that the banana peel is a natural wrapper, but until then I'm happy he can help out in the morning.

Monday, April 23, 2007

Friday night date night (with friends)

As a rule, John and I rarely go out on Friday night. For the most part all we ever want to do after a long work week is collapse in a heap on the sofa and watch TV—House and Numbers. We love our ritual, and we like staying up late and sleeping in on Saturday morning while the kids gorge themselves on TV. But this past Friday night (4/20), we had an invitation from our friends Dave and Sarah to help celebrate their birthdays (they're married, with birthdays on April 18th and 20th, respectively).

John and I met Dave and Sarah and Colin and Helena for cocktails at The Monte Carlo, which was our stomping grounds throughout our 20s. The Monte Carlo has this fantastic mirror-backed bar and a dining room patina-ed with timelessness. The bartenders mix cocktails big and strong, which is exactly how I like them. The restaurant has added a large patio since we've stopped hanging out there regularly. And, this Friday evening was absolutely gorgeous so we took advantage of the lovely, as-of-yet bug-free evening and sat outside.

After drinks, we headed to Saffron for dinner. Saffron is located in the Warehouse District, across the street from 112 Eatery, in one of those great spaces with sturdy columns and high ceilings, made intimate with walls painted dark red and saffron. The menu features upscale Mediterranean food, leaning heavily toward the spice combinations (saffron, cumin, coriander, and sumac) and food stuffs (merguez, kibbeh, lamb, chickpeas, couscous) of Morocco.

We started by sharing some mezzes (eastern Mediterranean small plates, like tapas) that included a house-made, spicy lamb merguez with red pepper confit, braised beef ravioli with eggplant and harissa, a grilled leek and sheep's feta tart, tuna and veal carpaccio with preserved lemons, chilled rare tuna with tabbouleh, and scallops with fried clams and saffron.

All the guys had the beef strip loin served with a smoked potato gratin. Sarah had the salmon and clam tagine with potatoes—the salmon was silky and rich. I had a braised lamb shoulder, melting and unctuous, served on a bed of stewed chickpeas that, to my mind, redefined the potential of dried legumes. We drank a passable chianti (Castillo Chianti Reserva '01). Organized by characteristics (e.g., semi-dry, medium bodied, lush), it's an easy, but not great, list to navigate. We wrapped up the meal by sharing a few desserts—a chocolate ganache cake, a banana tart, and a saffron rice pudding that nobody liked (and, I've noticed, is no longer on the menu).


In all, it was a fun evening out with friends. Lots of laughs and very good food. I can't wait to eat at Saffron again as there were other things on the menu that I'd like to try, such as the salmon and clams or the sumac-rubbed chicken, as well as other mezzes, such as the lamb brains. The house lavash and hummus that appeared from the kitchen as an amuse-bouche were also noteworthy.

Go eat there now!

Friday, April 20, 2007

Blasts from the past

I have been thinking about old friends this week, something I do from time to time. But, a few friends in particular have dominated my thoughts as I have had some casual encounters with them. We may have exchanged a few words or chatted for a while. The connections are sustaining, with sparking memories of time or place and reminding me why I enjoyed each person's company. And, in some cases, leading my thoughts to mutual friends. I'm pretty lousy at staying in touch with people, and I wish I were better at it. Starting a friendship takes a lot of energy, and unless maintenance is mutual, it's often easier to release friends when our paths diverge. Bittersweet in many ways.

A few weeks ago, I ran into Jeanne Z. at Little Szechuan a few weeks ago. We chatted only for a moment, but I did get to meet her husband and hear that Jeanne had recently seen Jessica. I worked with Jeanne and Jessica at Odegard Books. Jeanne and I worked the Wednesday evening shift with Seth J. (I wonder whatever happened to Seth?), then we'd meet Jessica for post-work drinks at Sweeney's. Sometimes the three of us would go dancing on Thursdays—Funk Night—at First Avenue. I have no idea what Jeanne is doing, not that it matters much. It made me happy to see her.

Yesterday, I ran into Kay Y., who lived across the hall from me first year at college . She was to have been my sophomore roommate, but during summer break she transferred to a neighboring school. We saw each other occasionally throughout our remaining college years, and I had the pleasure of working with her twin sister at a crappy part-time job. Kay looked great—like a 40-year-old version of her college self. Seeing her reminded me of other college friends that I would like to see or check in with —Liz F., Jane M., and Katie R. to name just a few. I wonder whatever happened to Colette C.?

Also yesterday I received an e-mail from Michele, who forwarded a message from childhood friend John H. He had attached photos of his young son and daughter, both of whom are the spitting image of him. It's so amazing to see the similarities and realize how powerful a gene pool can be. I'd really like to give a him shout-out. Naturally, seeing him makes me think of the entire old neighborhood—Ann D. and Catie L. We were so close during our formative years. Why didn't we all stay connected as we set out in the world?

Talking to Krista last night stirred up similar sentiments about the friends and professional contacts I made at SMP. I think about those folks often and miss many of them.

Former coworker Melissa D. just phoned, and although I didn't get to speak to her, I do think about her often and wonder how she's doing in Japan. She added so much energy to the workplace, an energy that's really missing now.

Well, since I hate wallowing in nostalgia, I resolve to reconnect with those who have fallen out of touch. I have my work cut out!

Tuesday, April 03, 2007

Happy birthday Winston!


My dear son, I can't believe you are five years old today. It's snowing here in Minnesota, just as it was on the day you were born.

Back in 2002, Auntie Michele surprised me with a visit on your due date. She had planned to welcome her second nephew in fine style, but you took your own sweet time. You are never to be rushed, believe me, I get that. On the morning Michele was to leave, very early, I felt too crummy to drive her to the airport. Too crummy to get out of bed even, and I knew that was the sign I had been waiting for. The sign that you were coming.

So, Daddy very generously drove Michele to the airport at 5 a.m. When he returned, I asked him to spend the day with me rather than going to the office. I was afraid the weather would turn worse and he would have a hard time getting home when I needed him most. Because he is the best Daddy in the whole wide world, he stayed with me. We watched lots of bad TV and took walks in the snow and ate donuts from PJ Murphy's.

Grandma Margaret was going to take care of Simon, but she couldn't make it through the storm so we sent Simon across the street to the Lange's house. Eventually Daddy drove me to the hospital, and after a lot of hard labor and an epidural and many nurses and many hours, you arrived red and screaming. Birth was a lot of work for you too. And, I was so relieved and pleased that you had finally arrived.


I miss you so much today, but you are a very big boy on your very own vacation, and I am so proud of you. Winston Graham Shepard. Five. Years. Old!

Tuesday, March 27, 2007

Last year Paris, this year Iowa


Yes, I'm talking about my summer vacation plans. Since it's hard to beat a good European vacation, I'm not even going to try. Instead, earlier today, I agreed to ride RAGBRAI in late July. Me, and John, our friends Steve (hopefully) and Scott (remotely possible?), and my friend Krista—oh, and Lance Armstrong.

RAGBRAI is the (Des Moines) Register's Annual Great Bike Ride Across Iowa. The ride takes place during the last week of July (think hot—two years ago, the temperature was over 100 degrees on the first day). It starts at some point on the western border of Iowa and ends, seven days and approximately 500 miles later, on the eastern border of the state. That's right, about 70 miles each day—sitting on a tiny saddle. With 10,000 other people. It's one of the nation's best parties. Other states have similar border-to-border rides, but none are as large or as lively as Iowa's ride. And, no other state has Iowa's hospitality—everyone you meet wants to know where you're from and how many RAGBRAIs you have done.

I'll be writing a whole lot more about RAGBRAI in the coming months, especially as I am now officially in training, which has to be worked around spring break (the boys are taking a vacation, leaving their parents at home so we've lined up a week of fine wine and food) and New Orleans (where I'm meeting Krista at the end of April for Jazz Fest).

Did I mention the pie?

[That's my handsome husband, John, in a ride-through town on RAGBRAI 2005. Notice his tanned, smooooooth arms!]

Friday, March 09, 2007

another way to wake up


This is how I really woke up this morning. "This" is a house mouse, although the one in my bedroom was more gray than brown. Yes, a mouse in my bedroom.

During the later hours of the early morning, in the half-sleep/half-awake state between snoozes, I heard a scritching noise near the foot of my bed. Sitting bolt-upright in my bed, fumbling with the bedside lamp, and trying to find my glasses, I felt that unmistakable surge of adrenaline course through my core. After I pulled myself together, I saw a mouse climbing Mt. Jansport, the backpack on wheels that we store in our room. In a panic, I notified John—my absolutely mostest hero, in the whole world—that there was a mouse in our room. And, to my rescue, he grabbed a sticky pad from an earlier episode, trapped the mouse, and whisked it out of our room.

My husband is so handsome, strong, funny, smart—and very brave! He caught a mouse with his hands because he loves me. As a result, I may give him a huge pass on his clutter (such as the piles of magazines on the floor or the Jansport), which he had weeks ago offered to move to another part of the house, but hadn't yet. Just think: our clutter served as an early warning system. Without it, the mouse may have invaded our room with more stealth.

Despite the adrenaline rush, I feel like I handled this mouse better than the last few, although, admittedly, I haven't spent a night in our room since Monday night. I am scarred—and obsessed with these questions: where are the mice coming from? Why are they coming into my bedroom? Where are they going when they come into my bedroom? How can I stop them from coming into my room? Where can I get more of these sticky pads, which are better for catching mice by hand? When will I stop wiggin' out at the slightest noise?

Just one more question. When does mouse season end????

Wednesday, March 07, 2007

one way to wake up


This is the preferred method for waking up on any given day, but especially on a Tuesday morning: a strong cup of Dunn Brother's coffee and a sweet almond roll from Trotter's. I've been going to this neighborhood cafe for over ten years. Back in the day, John and I lived just around the corner, and it was a pleasure to eat their homey soups (pasta fagiole was a favorite), focaccia pizzas, and sandwiches (hands down best chicken salad with crunchy celery and pecans, as well as an toasted sandwich with avocado, slices of red onion and red pepper, and pepper jack cheese). But, Trotter's strength is their baked goods—chocolate chaos cupcakes (like an upscale Hostess cupcake with cream cheese filling), sweet rolls (maple pecan, orange, almond, and cinnamon), coffee cakes, lemon bars, and the best cookies in the city (chocolate chip, monster, midnight mint, ginger, and peanut butter, as well as seasonal specialties like pecan sandies with maple syrup and pumpkin chocolate chip drop cookies). The sweet rolls and cookies particularly remind me of the treats my mother makes so well.

Can't you taste the yeasty sweetness of this roll, drizzled with almond frosting and sprinkled with slivered almonds?

Thursday, February 22, 2007

going to the dance

Simon's school has a dance tonight. And the memories come flooding back to the gymnasiums at the junior high school and the Masonic Temple and the Elks' Club, sites of many teen-hormone charged affairs. Youth dances, as I believe they were called back in the day, were huge in my hometown.

I loved school dances. The anticipation and preparation (curling iron and hair spray, jeans and a shirt shot with metallic thread). The smell of fear as one summoned courage to ask another to dance. Getting crazy excited when your favorite song was played. Feeling superior to the morons who were caught sneaking in shampoo bottles filled with schnapps.

Nothing beats 80s music for dancing, especially the hyper-frentic pogo-ing we used to do. It's no surprise then that on the rare occasion I go clubbing as an adult, I have no idea what to do with my hands and feet.

But, these are shades of the future. Tonight's event is a family dance, and it's rumored to be the funnest EXPO event of the year. On the drive to school this morning, Simon wondered if he would have to ask anyone to dance.

You can always ask me, little buddy.

Wednesday, February 21, 2007

spring is springing (for the moment)

The weather has been obscenely warm for February with temperatures hovering near 40 degrees. Yesterday Simon noticed the Canadian geese on the C-D playing fields, and today in Lowertown I spotted a man prematurely sporting shorts. Minnesotans have been advised to enjoy the sunny, warm days while they last because snow is coming. A big, honking, authentic winter storm with piles and piles of snow is on its way!!! Provisions must be purchased (chili fixins and chocolate, for starters) and movies rented.

Sadly, though, unless the storm veers off-course—which could happen—I will have to reschedule a much anticipated lunch date with Caryl.

Highlights of the past week or more include the following:

Mice
Yes, we've been invaded. I awoke early two Fridays ago to a rustling noise in our bedroom, which sounded as if it were coming from inside a paper bag. John was so confused when I woke him that the only thing he could suggest was flight. So we trekked down to the guest bedroom—thank goodness for the extra bed—where I passed a restless night and had a dream about baby raccoons in our house. In case it has never happened to you, allow me to testify that a mouse in a paper bag sounds like an animal many times larger than itself. Later in the morning, Simon comments that he saw a tail go into our bathroom. After gathering what we needed from said bathroom, John and I decamped for the guest bathroom. On Saturday, an exterminator unearthed one mouse from a paper bag in our bedroom and two mice from the drain in our shower. Surreal. In addition to mice, Winston had a twenty-four hour bug (high fever and cold symptoms, but thankfully no barfing). Now we have bait boxes strategically located around our home, inside and out, as well as year-long service. Hopefully next fall/winter will be less eventful (seven is our grand total—and we still haven't caught mom or dad). Still, I'm totally on edge almost two weeks later.

Book group
A small but lively group met at the Chowgirls' lunch spot in Dinkytown, which is owned by book group member Amy B., to talk about Patricia Hampl's Blue Arabesque, which we all disliked for its pretentiouness and bad editing. Terry L. brought Alan T. as a "special" guest. He regaled us with a supreme arrogance that must be inculcated in all Random House reps. He was a terrible name-dropper, too.

Cooking
From my resolution list, I made gnocchi. John had requested a gravy to accompany these light as a feather dumplings so I made a ragu from Lund's meatloaf mix (veal, pork, chuck), white wine, stock, soffritto (minced carrots, celery, onions), tomato puree, and milk. The ragu was fantastic; the gnocchi needed more salt. Learning: I need to take my time forming the dumplings—it's not a difficult operation. Next time, I hope one or both of the kids will help, as I think they'd each have fun rolling the dough into "snakes", then rolling the dough nuggets on a fork.

Reading
Current fiction is Fieldwork by Mischa Berlinski, a novel about
missionaries in Thailand, demonic possession, taboo sex, and a murder. So far, a confident writing style has sucked me in, as has the exotic setting. Current nonfiction is Heat by Bill Buford, an account of the author's stint in Mario Batali's kitchen. I'm also listening to Cormac McCarthy's The Road, a father-son novel set in the bleak aftermath of a global catastrophe. A real unnerving tension runs through this novel, enhanced by road warriors and cannibalism. To ameliorate the effects of McCarthy's creepy book, I have just read aloud Henry Huggins to Simon and Winston. When I was a kid, I absolutely adored Beverly Cleary. Reading HH as an adult reminds me of how different being a kid in a small Midwestern town during the 1970s was from being a kid in a large Midwestern metropolitan area in the 2000s. We had free reign of our "neighborhood". I road my bike almost everywhere around the lake I wanted to go. And, my parents even turned us loose to run around "downtown" Winner, SoDak when we were in junior high school. Anyway, Henry Higgins's childhood seems a lot more "aw shucks" than I imagine Simon and Winston's will be. Times change. Even so, Henry's adventures pleased my kids—we had a lot of good laughs.

Skiing
The boys had their last skiing lesson at Mount Como last Saturday. On Sunday, we took advantage of reduced price lift tickets at Afton Alps and skiied. Well, to be perfectly honest, John skiied with the boys because my flabby body couldn't support me on skis. My calves were stretched to the pulling point (they're still sore four days later), and I felt so claustrophobic in ski boots, especially since I couldn't give my muscles a good deep stretch. John—bless him—taught the boys how to ride the chair life (Simon rode by himself). They had so much fun, they now want to ski every day. I vow to rehabilitate my muscles and lose weight so that I can join them. I also want to take lessons and improve my skills so we can go ski big mountains, like the Rockies or the Alps, during Christmas breaks.

Thursday, February 08, 2007

stay up late: reading


Yesterday, my coworker Barb mentioned to me that she had stayed up real late, until 2 a.m., reading a book. I think she was sort of gloating, too, because she prefaced her comment with a "guess what I did last night?" And I guess I was kind of jealous because I couldn't remember the last time I had stayed up stupid-late reading a book. I occasionally stay up stupid-late for other reasons—blogging, blog reading, watching TV, knitting, parenting. But, rest assured, if I try to read after 9 p.m., I am certain to fall asleep. Comatose sleep too, not just a little cat nap that energizes me so I can read a little more when I awake.

So, last night, after I had gorged myself on all the food programs banked on the DVR, I muted the TV and tucked into my book, The Shadow of the Wind. I have been reading this novel off and on since August, and I really wanted to finish it before I lost interest and never picked it up again. Besides, I have set aside another semi-hulking, semi-dense novel to which I must return, and many other books are calling my name.

The first 250 pages are rich and dense, lusciously establishing the literary intrigue at the center of this novel, as well as a sense of place in post-war Barcelona. Often I'd get that sinking feeling that I was missing something and contemplate starting over. Then, near page 275, the book became utterly gripping. Although it took me three hours to read the last 100 pages, I could not put it down. Before the storylines were wrapped up, one of the secondary characters gave her perspective of the events, which neatly served as a review of those chapters I read back in August.


After reading the last page at 12:30 a.m., I felt totally energized and wanted to start another book immediately, especially something that might be consumed in a few sittings. I feel a renewed faith in my ability to read, and I want to devour every book in sight!

bikes: a little slice of sunshine

Orbea's Orca, updated for 2007, is about the sexiest bike I have ever seen. The spectacular frame geometry is so modern. You have no choice but to go fast on this bike. Last year's model was a deeper orange, the color of the Basque Euskatel team, which I prefer to the newer, slightly anemic colors highlighting the mostly black frames. That said, I wouldn't turn these wheels down if offered.

Monday, February 05, 2007

Weekend Report: February 4

It's a good thing I fell asleep right after cooking and eating a large dinner on Saturday. That way I could be well rested when Simon woke me up at 5:30 a.m. Confused initially, I eventually made out that he was sitting just outside my bedroom door, in a little hallway by the bath, in a pool of technicolor vomit. The stench was unbearable as was the thought about cleaning it up. Simon was a bit stunned too. Poor thing. He was so apologetic as he climbed into our bed, requiring lots of comfort.

John got up to help me and was such a sport about wiping sick off the walls, which is pretty unprecedented. And he fixed us all a lovely breakfast of the best pancakes I have ever eaten, graced by a sides of sausage patties and fluffy scrambled eggs.

For the most part, John and I spent our day cleaning up after each of Simon's episodes. I lost track at some point. Simon was depleted, but he did manage to watch the entire Super Bowl from his "nest" on the couch. At some point, we took advantage of my parents' generosity. They offered to watch the boys while John and I snuck off to Lund's.

While negotiating the very busy parking lot at the grocery store, I noticed one of my car's wheels made a horrible noise. Thinking it was ice, I made a note to check when we finally found a parking spot. But, it was worse than ice. I had a big flat tire. On, it bears mentioning, the second coldest day of the year. Could the day get any worse?

John and I did our grocery shopping, planning the week's menu as we combed each aisle. Then, John—my hero—removed the flat and installed the very meager spare tire. On our drive home, we noticed Tires Plus was open so we dropped off the car to be repaired. My dad picked us and the groceries up. Safe at home, my mother—because she is so caring and thoughtful (read sarcasm)—said, "Aren't you thankful it didn't happen with the boys in the car?" The thought never occured to me. Don't get me wrong—I'm glad they were safe at home! Why does she say things like that? Things that I can't help but read as less than subtle digs at me and my character and my ability to function as an adult and a mother. Why can't my mother say, "How awful for you. I'm so sorry these things are happening to you today. Is there anything I can do to help make your crappy day better?" And if I tell her how much her comment bothers me and on how many different levels, she'll get defensive or accuse me of pitying myself.

She makes me very angry.

And, I warned you. This is my therapy blog.

Because I was wrung out from wiping up vomit and doing endless loads of laundry just to stay ahead of the next vomit load, and because my mother demanded so much of my attention that I had a hard time giving my attention to my sick child, all I wanted to do was hide. No longer feeling on top of the world as I had the day before, zipping around my kitchen cooking great food for my family, I started to spiral downward emotionally. John and I begged out of the Super Bowl party I had been anticipating for a month and hunkered down with the kids, which isn't a half-bad way to spend a Sunday. Surrounded by those who truly love and don't judge you.

I love my John and my Simon and my Winston.

Speaking of Winston. He's become quite a card shark. Someone at DC taught him "Garbage," an easy and fun game to learn. Thank goodness for his abiding passion though. As long as someone played cards with him, he didn't seem to notice that Simon was barfing all over the house or getting tons of attention.

Some cardinals are at play outside the window where I'm blogging. Three males, who appear to be chasing each other, and a female. You go, girl!

Weekend Report: February 3

My parents visited this weekend, and I must admit that it was one of their best visits yet. On Friday evening after I picked up the boys from DC, we met my parents at the Ramada, formerly the Thunderbird, near the MOA, which played host to the Minnesota Decoy show. Collectors and carvers of decoys (duck, goose, fish) had assembled in a cramped meeting room to display their wares. Once your eyes adjusted to a room filled with middle-aged men dressed in plaid flannel shirts and vests sporting pockets for shells and game, you then had an opportunity to work your way through a minefield of decoys, most of which carried outrageous price tags (anywhere from a couple hundred to a few thousand dollars). I have no idea how one looks at a decoy and decides if the price is fair. I asked my father, and he said, "Collectors know."

After an hour with the DU crowd we headed to Fuddrucker's for large, impeccably cooked burgers. Seriously. I don't know how they maintain the "quality" control with the volume of cooking the kitchen does on a Friday night, but the burgers really are better than those served by many more upscale joints.

Saturday: The temperature was prohibitively cold. Reports vary, but it's safe to say that windchill was involved and that temps hovered around zero, at best. Instead of taking the boys to ski school, I made a big breakfast: Dorothy's grits souffle with lots of butter and cheese. John doctored up some thick-cut, hickory smoked bacon with a brown sugar/cayenne/black pepper concoction, which we then baked. And, since we had a bottle of sparkling wine kicking around from New Year's Eve, we enjoyed mimosas.

After breakfast, my mother and I braved the elements to do some shopping. First stop: The Bead Monkey where my mother scoured the store for unique beads (she has the singular goal of making a necklace to go with each of the outfits in her wardrobe). She treated me to a pendant crafted from a square piece of quartz with striations in purple, smoky brown, and clear. It's beautiful, and initially I thought I'd hang it from a black leather cord, but now I'm thinking I might also pick up a length of sheer brown ribbon for a more ethereal look.

Next stop: Coastal Seafoods, where I had a fishmonger help me select fishes for the evening's Mediterranean stew. And, I received a special treat. After inquiring about a particular fish—wahoo—the fishmonger asked if I liked raw fish, then gave me a sliver of this buttery fish from the tuna family, which pretty much melted in my mouth.

Then, we picked up Grandpa Ron, John, and the little boys and convoyed to Lakeville where we visited brother Nik. He was souping up a stock motorcycle and wanted to show it off to us. It's pretty awesome to see my baby brother happy and proud in his element. Finally, we drove from Lakeville to St. Louis Park—covering the far reaches of the Twin Cities in one fell swoop, on the coldest day of the year to make my inaugural visit to Trader Joe's.

I get the fuss about Trader Joe's, especially if one's diet is restricted to prepared foods or snacks. You can get any manner of wonderful seasoned nuts or chocolate-dipped items, including but not limited to sunflower seeds. You can also find frozen meals in bulk—lobster ravioli and other exotic pastas to name a few. But, the produce section is pathetic, and there's no meat counter. And, I think it would all be perfect for a student or if you were single. But, I don't think the chain's constituency is limited to students or singles. And, while it's fine to stop in for a special nibble—say for a party or to treat the office, which is what we do at Whole Foods—there's no way we could do our weekly shopping here.

The store was packed on a Saturday with cranky yuppies and grups, maybe because it was cold or impossible to find parking (this location has, seemingly, fewer than 50 spots). I also think the shopping experience is rancid because the store's shoppers are so very important and busy and they're all in a rush so they're always jostling past you, who are in the way. And, I'll likely never really get a bead on Joe's because I promised John I wouldn't insist we trek across the city to visit again. He might change his mind, though, after he tries the milk chocolate-dipped banana chips. The chocolate-covered pretzels were tasty enough (though not as good as Nestle's), but I can't stop eating the banana chips and I normally loathe banana chips, picking them out of granola and trail mixes when they deign to appear.

Once we arrived home, I spent the remainder of the afternoon cooking, blissfully. First I chopped the vegetables (celery, onions, carrots, garlic) and peeled the shrimp to make my own fish stock. When the vegetables and shrimp shells had browned in olive oil, I added white wine, water, tomato paste, and thyme sprigs, then simmered it all for an hour. As the mixture cooked, the flavors concentrated into an amazing crimson stock that looked, smelled, and tasted so much more substantial than the fish stock I've purchased from Coastal.

I set out a cutting board with Spanish cheeses—Mahon, drunken goat, Cabrales, and Manchego—and a log of saucisson sec, as well as a bottle of wine so that my "helpers" might fortify themselves while I prepped the ingredients for the fish stew. The recipe came from Ina Garten's Barefoot Contessa. We've taken a lot of inspiration lately from her show and cookbooks this winter. She has converted a lot of traditional French dishes into uncomplicated, delicious recipes. We've made pork loin stuffed with fennel and onions; cauliflower gratin with gruyere; croque monsieur; and moules marinieres, to name a few.

This fish stew is a riff on bouillabaise. Diced potatoes, fennel, and onions were sauteed in olive oil for about 15 minutes; then saffron, two cups of good white wine (I happened to have an albarino in the fridge) and one quart of fish stock were added. After a short time, the fish went in. I used halibut and striped bass, as well as a pound of shrimp and 25 mussels, which then steamed for 15 minutes. Basically, in very little time we had this amazing, rich fish stew, which was a serious improvement over the one I made in June (from Nigel Slater's Appetites). Rather than a riesling or a rose, which more traditionally accompany fish stew, my wine guy at Thomas Liquor recommended an Italian red—Solane Santi Valpolicella Classico '04, which turned out to be an all-around good wine.

For dessert, we made chocolate fondue, which, for a few weeks, the kids had been requesting. Strawberries, bananas, excellent sweet pears, and pound cake all found their way into semi-sweet chocolate chips melted into organic half-and-half. Amazingly, Winston ate little fondue. Even dipped in chocolate, my youngest, and most adventurous eater, will not let fruit pass his lips.

Needless to say, I fell asleep watching TV afterward.

Monday, January 22, 2007

Hillary's in

She may not have a snowball's chance in hell, but Hillary Clinton's announcement gives me a warm, fuzzy feeling. First woman to run for president.

Run Hillary. Run.

Monday, January 15, 2007

Mondays don't get better than this

Simon and Winston have the day off for MLK, Jr Day. By "day off" I mean no school, no Discovery Club. John took the a.m. shift while I got in a few hours at the office (putting out fires, no less). Now, Simon is enjoying a play date at a friend's house. Winston is playing with Play-Doh happily—his choice over ice cream at Izzy's— allowing me unfettered access to the Internet where I am intermittently reading (others) and writing (mine) blogs.

Sure beats the weekend, which was, IMHO, the worst of the year, so far.

On Friday evening we noticed the kitchen sink was backing up at the slightest provocation, something it never ever does. At some point late Saturday a plumber deigned to make a housecall—at a usurious weekend time-and-a-half rate, I might add. As soon as he threw open the doors under the sink, he announced, "Looks like your mousetraps are working." Great. How did he know I couldn't deal with mice, dead or alive? (On the bright side, the mice are dead. Afterall, the only good mouse is a dead mouse. Funny though, when John cleared out the area in anticipation of the plumber, he didn't see any mice in the traps.)

While the plumber was getting equipment out of his truck, I invited John to remove the offending traps. I couldn't bear to look, but the traps were rumored to contain four baby mice. Apparently, one of the parents was running around at the moment of discovery.

Later, when I replayed the tapes of the day, I felt a little remorse. Intellectually, I know these mice—I'm assuming they're a couple—just wanted the best for their babies. They found a warm, comfortable, sheltered place to build a nest and start a family. They scurried around day and night looking for food to keep their family well fed. Isn't that all anyone can ask for—to be sheltered and fed? Then, their babies stumble onto a glue pad...I can't even articulate the rest.

I'm obsessed with the mice. Even though the occurrences are contained, the quality of my mental health would be much improved if we never had any vermin in the house. Ever.

Back to the sink. Sludge. That was the diagnosis of the clogged sink. The prescription: fill both sides of the sink with water, then pull the plugs simultaneously and force the water through the pipes. Length of treatment: forever.

I am happy to report that we did have some happy times over the weekend. On Friday evening I got to read and knocked off a big chunk of
The Whole World Over, which I will finish not only before Conversation with Books (1/22), but also before its library due date (1/17). I also cooked for a couple hours on Sunday, making an appropriately comforting chicken pot pie with biscuit topping.

The boys each had their first ski lesson on Saturday morning. Win's class met inside and practiced walking in ski boots, pushing up from a fall, and duck walks. Outside, on a patch of snow slightly larger than the Arctic ice cap, Simon's class learned the same fundamentals. Next week, we'll trek them out to the ski hill. Hopefully the snow we received last night will stick around until next Saturday.

Since every dish in the kitchen was dirty and the sink was clogged, we took the boys out for lunch after ski school. John thought Andy's Garage—a 50s-style diner in a former service station—would be the perfect treat. Apparently not enough other people think the same way as a big "For Sale" sign on the building thwarted our plans. I'm sad, but not surprised, that Andy's has closed (the Pioneer Press, not long ago, profiled the restaurant as failing). Mickey's Diner, located in a diner car, was our next choice but everyone near downtown St. Paul had that idea. So, reluctantly, I acquiesced to Boundary Waters Brewery—where, of course, I had an unexpectly good time. The boys wanted to sit at the bar and watch college hoops. So we did, and the bartender took very good care of us, bringing the boys crayons and sheets of paper and root beer. Our food was pretty mediocre, even for bar fare, but who cares.

And, on Sunday I took the boys to see a matinee—
Night at the Museum, which was playing at Highland. Initially, Simon was buggin' out in anticipation of Ben Stiller's character getting locked in the Natural History Museum overnight with every animal and scruffy historical character coming to life. I had to assure him the movie was a comedy, but he gave me that withering look of disbelief. He was in anguish. I wondered how badly he would be scarred if I forced him to watch the whole thing. Soon enough hijinks ensued, and he decided to tough it out to the bitter end, laughing throughout. Now, he wants to make his own "night at the museum " adventures, imagining such things as all of his books coming to life while he's sleeping. I love his creative spirit.

Listening to some good tunes now—"Got to Be the Way It Is" Sharon Jones, "Peanuts" The Police, "What This Town Needs" Blanche, "Rise" PIL, "Jellybelly" Smashing Pumpkins.

Here's wishing every Monday could be like this one.

Tuesday, January 09, 2007

Christmas all over again

...but only the good parts: the presents. I'm sure post will sound pretty petty, but I'm willing to risk it, especially since I'm the only person who reads this blog.

The boxes containing our Christmas presents arrived from Princeton yesterday!! David (John's "stepfather") mailed them on Wednesday, December 28—and they only just arrived at our house, by way of USPS, yesterday, Monday, January 8. A holiday and a national day of mourning for a dead ex-president has a particular way of messing up a well-oiled machine.

Despite the delay, the boys have been so excited to rip right into the boxes and rediscover their loot—lots of board games, building systems (wooden blocks for building a pyramid and Illumibot), a remote control pteranodon, and lots of wonderful books (including the color-illustrated The Trumpet of the Swan and the Narnia Chronicles boxed set).

As for my gifts, I can't wait to dig into the classic ski movies (from my cheeky monkey), Emma Goldman's diaries, Adam Gopnik's New York essays, and the fabulous cookbooks (including
The Silver Spoon, Nigel Slater's The Kitchen Diaries, and A Swedish Kitchen).

Monday, January 01, 2007

Happy New Year!


At the top of my resolution list: Learn when to say when. Starting the new year with a horrible hangover is a lousy tradition. But every year, except 2000 when I had a newborn baby, I have insisted on drinking stupid amounts of alcohol that inevitably result in feeling bad and dumb and tired and apathetic to the optimism of a new year. But I must say, John and I were the hosts with the most last night! And, it's no small feat seeing as the adults were outnumbered by children (four couples and a parent flying solo, each with two children).

Friend Helena, with whom I planned this dinner, insisted that John and I not do any cooking since we were hosting. So we agreed doing the meal potluck. Helena and her husband brought the main course (pork tenderloins, marinated in a soy/sherry/ginger/garlic concoction then baked, and roasted potatoes); Shawn and Annika brought a lovely tossed green salad (with red peppers, pears, blue cheese, and caramelized walnuts) and a focaccia; and Dave and Sarah contributed dessert (miniature tarts and truffles, raspberries and blackberries—the fruit was a treat). John and I provided pre-dinner nibbles—an excellent salmon tartare (capers, scallions, serrano chile, and lemon juice mixed with diced raw salmon), duck foie gras, salted mixed nuts, and an assortment of olives (black balsamic, fat green olives stuffed with citrus, and teeny nicoise).

Naturally everyone brought wine—a few good Bordeauxs in the bunch—and sparkling wine (cava and a bottle of Mumm Napa, which would have made a great contrast to the Mumm Cordon Rouge we bought). At the end of the evening, the bottle count was 8 wine, 2 sparkling wine/champagne. So, slightly more than a bottle per person.


Oh, and, we finally have snow. Yesterday's drizzle turned to sleet around 3 p.m., which Simon and I noticed as we were running errands. When we returned home we were so busy with party details that we hardly noticed that the snow was beginning to pile up.

This morning was bright with sun and clear skies. The outdoors, fresh and crisp, beckoned, but my head was so disconnected from my body that I couldn't get going. So we blew off the sledding party that had been organized last night in favor of whatever sleep or rest we could manage with wild kids, screaming in the den.

Later in the morning, I had the kids bundle up and head outside to put some fresh human tracks in the yard. Simon reported that he saw deer hoofprints, which is exciting to think about, and I heard/saw a woodpecker going to town on the tree just outside the front door. I love our neighborhood.


If I had felt more ambitious, I would have packed up the ornaments and decorations, and taken down the tree, but it was nice to just lounge around the house, feeling no urgency toward anything. I finished reading Charlotte's Web to Simon and had a little cry over the scene when Wilbur asks Charlotte why she was so nice to him and she replied, "Because you're my friend." Then we both curled up on the couch for a long afternoon nap.

Since I'm beginning to feel more human post-nap, I'm starting to look forward to the new year. Lots I want to accomplish. Most of our friends at the dinner last night had similar resolutions: eat better, exercise more. And, my resolutions follow those lines. Though I feel like I eat well, I definitely will exercise more—starting tomorrow even when I intend to take my first lunch-hour class at the Skyway Y. I also have some reading goals that I hope to achieve before my birthday in October. And, I have some culinary goals—restaurants to eat in and food items to try making at home, all of which I hope to blog about here. Some professional goals: get that managing editor position at a certain glossy magazine. Travel. Invest. Landscape our yard. Take a wine class. Go camping and do more cycling with my little family.

Let the wild rumpus begin!


Wednesday, December 06, 2006

O Tannenbaum

Driving around town over the weekend, I noticed all the cars with trees strapped to their roofs, which I find really heartwarming—especially after being bombarded by the commercial crap of the holidays, starting the day before Halloween. A decorated tree is one of the best things about the season. I love driving down Summit Avenue on my way home from work, where evergreens strung with golden lights fill corner windows in nearly every house.

Since we're traveling to Princeton this Christmas, John and I agreed we would forgo a Christmas tree. Instead, I bought a wreath from the neighbor kid selling them as a band fundraiser. Sure the wreath is fragrant with pine—and looks stunning hanging on our massive stucco fireplace. But somehow neither the wreath nor the bowl of red glass ornaments on the dining-room table provide adequate holiday spirit. I'm just not feeling it.

So, on our way home from the library on Sunday, Simon and I stopped at Nativity, a neighborhood church, to see if we could find a little tree. Some boys were dragging around a three-foot tree—much to their mother's annoyance (mine, too)—that looked perfect. But, it was likely the only one as we were unable to find another. After poking around a bit, a six-foot balsam beauty caught our eye. And in the split second it took to pay for the tree, someone had bundled it up and secured it to the roof of my station wagon. How Norman Rockwell is that?

Lucky for me, John arrived home from running his errands just a moment before I did. And boy was he ever surprised to see us inching down the alley with a tree on top of the car!

Last night the boys helped me trim the tree. Simon has the eye of a decorator and very carefully and thoughtfully hung some of the most delicate ornaments, while Winston hung all the unbreakables on the bottom branches. And, with only two small exceptions*, the tree is perfect.

*In replacing a bulb on the string of lights, somehow a whole section has gone rogue, blinking as if the strand was meant to do that. Fortunately, it's the middle section and is providing a nifty effect. The other is actually a larger issue: the stand has a leak. Not only did I had a small lake to clean up while avoid electrocution, but the tree hasn't had a drink in a few days. And, I had to find a replacement stand. We've tried metal and plastic, but every stand we've purchased has had just one use before it has broken. I've just picked up a cast-iron stand and will hope for the best.

Monday, December 04, 2006

Snow is falling

and sticking to the ground. The temperature here in Minnesota is cold enough for the teeny, tiny, itty, bitty snowflakes that are falling, very slowly, to pile up. While the amount of snow on the ground is trace, when combined with the bitter cold wind, it serves to remind that winter is fast upon us. The boys were so excited this morning. When they heard we had some snow, they imagined fluffy piles for sledding. Not so fast lil rangers!

The Shepards had a lovely, relaxing weekend mostly because the parent-Shepards were nursing hangovers from the Spanish-wine tasting they hosted on Friday evening. We were joined by the Ws, M/Cs, and H/Js, none of whom seemed to suffer much the next day. Sarah W. and I provided the food, which was mostly tapas—cocktail mix (pistachios, almonds, and fried favas, fried chickpeas, and cornnuts), marinated olives, warm paprika-spiked marcona almonds, caperberries, spicy garlic shrimp, a traditional tortilla (where the potatoes and onions were cooked in olive oil, then added to beaten eggs before cooked together), and a hot spinach dip. The Ws also brought the piece de resistance—chili-pesto oysters. The oysters, which had been shucked just before arriving, were a nice mix of kumamoto and bluepoint, topped with a chili-spiked pesto and breadcrumbs, then blasted at 475 degrees. I'm confident I ate more than my fair share, but I couldn't stop eating them.

The wines were fine. Lisa brought a random selection of riojas and snuck in an Argentinean malbec, for some reason unbeknowst to anyone. Interestingly, a very developed rioja reserva that stood out noticeably from the others had us all fooled into thinking it was the malbec. Not because any of us knew better, but because it was different from the rest.

On Saturday, the boys attended Sydney and Georgia's joint birthday party at the Children's Museum, which is still a dreadful place, especially as our children are outgrowing the joint. Then, Winston and John spent the afternoon napping while Simon gorged himself on TV and I read the February 2006 issue of Travel and Leisure—catching up on tall piles of back issues. Later that evening, after the long winter naps, we all went over to my friend Suzanne's house. She and her husband host an annual book party, whereby Suzanne, a publisher's rep, sells her samples for cheap (twenty cents on the dollar) and donates the money to a local food shelf. This year's event was more relaxed than usual, and we had a chance to chat with Suzanne and B. and another guest (E.). And, we picked up some great books, including Brad Melzer's The Book of Fate, the latest Michael Connelly, and a cookbook.

The weekend was deliciously relaxing. I wish I had done more reading—books with obligations are piling up (Pride and Prejudice, which I'm reading with Caryl; Girl in Landscape, which seems short, like I might be able to finish it before the end of the year). And, I wish I had done some knitting and some organizing. Alas...

Watching: Studio 60 on the Sunset Strip

Reading: Chicken with Plums and the New York Times Book Review "Best Books of the Year" issue

Cooking: croque monsieur (from Barefoot Contessa in Paris) and spaghetti carbonara (from Cooks Illustrated)

Sunday, November 12, 2006

Awesome weekend

The Shepard family just had another awesome weekend. After reluctance in the early morning, Simon acquiesced to attend his first futsal session. Futsal is a type of indoor soccer, played with a low-pressure soccer ball, and it's kind of chaotic. I noticed a number of kids getting knocked down and run over, but having fun running around a gym, kicking a ball. Simon knew no other kids there, and I felt really sad as he circled the gym before soccer started, trying to figure out where he fit in. One quick hour later, Simon announced he'd had a good time. The coaches are really cool and empowering without being too feel-good.

Winston had his hair cut, at his request. Over dinner on Friday evening, John asked Win what sort of a haircut he'd like. Winston answered matter-of-factly, "A mohawk." We were stunned—didn't know whether to laugh or cry—and decided to wait until after the holidays as I'm not sure this is how we want him to appear in the Christmas photos. I'm also not sure if we're prepared to see his scars and cradle cap. My surfer boy still has longish hair but it is now cut around the ears, which are in serious need of cleaning. I've spent a lot of the weekend trying to remember what he looked like pre-haircut.

On Saturday, John and I finally threw a birthday party for Simon—nine guests for bowling at Ran-Ham Bowl, the foulest smelling, dirtiest place in this quadrant of St. Paul. Needless to say, the kids had a good time bowling. Simon's friends are super—just one incredibly obnoxious kid in the whole bunch. In the evening, we had dinner at the H's house (beef goulash, tossed green salad, fruit tart) and played card games. Today, we're recovering from drinking too much after-dinner Knob Creek.

Cooking: lamb biryani from Suvir Saran's
Indian Home Cooking
Baking: banana bread from Mark Bittman's
How to Cook Everything
Reading: Jennifer Egan's new novel,
The Keep

I think I'm getting dumber

Is it possible to lose intelligence? I don't feel dumber, but I'm having increasing moments of extreme embarrassment over something deeply stupid I have said or done. For example, last night, after dinner with friends, we played cards. For the record, I DO NOT play cards. I find it boring beyond compare. Aside from solitaire, I do not know how to play a single card game. But, last night, I found myself playing hearts with John and two other couples, and I DID NOT GET HOW TO PLAY THE GAME. How is it that I have absolutely no aptitude for card games? Perhaps I should just admit it up front so not to appear so stupid among intelligent people who are no more intelligent than I am. What do I need to do?